Feyre and Rhysand’s relationship timeline spans ACOTAR, ACOMAF, ACOWAR, and ACOSF. They first meet in ACOTAR Chapter 20 (Calanmai), share their first kiss in ACOTAR Chapter 42, and become romantic in ACOMAF after Feyre leaves the Spring Court. Feyre learns Rhys is her mate in ACOMAF Chapter 50, accepts the bond in Chapters 54–55, and they later become parents to Nyx in ACOSF.
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Feyre & Rhysand — Quick Answers
When do Feyre and Rhysand first meet?
They first meet during Calanmai (the Great Rite) in A Court of Thorns and Roses, Chapter 20.
When do Feyre and Rhysand have their first kiss?
Their first kiss happens Under the Mountain in A Court of Thorns and Roses, Chapter 42, when Rhysand kisses Feyre to protect her and Tamlin from Amarantha’s suspicion.
When do Feyre and Rhysand get together?
Their relationship becomes romantic in A Court of Mist and Fury, after Feyre leaves the Spring Court and joins the Night Court.
When does Feyre find out Rhysand is her mate?
Feyre learns Rhys is her mate in A Court of Mist and Fury, Chapter 50 (via the Suriel).
Do Feyre and Rhysand get married?
Yes. Although mating bonds are the primary fae partnership tradition, Feyre and Rhysand also choose to marry later in the series.
Does Rhysand die?
Rhysand dies in A Court of Wings and Ruin, Chapter 76, and is revived in the following chapter.
Do Feyre and Rhysand have a baby?
Yes. Their son, Nyx, is born during A Court of Silver Flames.
Feyre and Rhysand Relationship Timeline (All Books)
This timeline breaks down the most important Feyre and Rhysand chapters across the ACOTAR series — from their first meeting at Calanmai to the mating bond, High Lady moment, and Nyx.
| Book | Chapter | Key Moment | What Happens |
|---|---|---|---|
| ACOTAR | 20 | Feyre And Rhysand First Meeting (Calanmai) | Rhysand rescues Feyre from aggressive fae males during the Great Rite. |
| ACOTAR | 37 | Feyre And Rhysand Bargain Tattoo | Rhys heals Feyre Under the Mountain and forms their magical bargain. |
| ACOTAR | 42 | Feyre And Rhysand First Kiss | Rhys kisses Feyre to protect her and Tamlin from Amarantha’s suspicion. |
| ACOMAF | 4 | Rhysand Wedding Interruption | Rhys enforces the bargain and removes Feyre from her wedding to Tamlin. |
| ACOMAF | 12 | Feyre Leaves the Spring Court | Mor rescues Feyre after Tamlin traps her, and Feyre chooses to remain in the Night Court. |
| ACOMAF | 44 | Feyre And Rhysand Starfall | Feyre and Rhys share emotional vulnerability and growing romantic connection. |
| ACOMAF | 48 | First Time Together | They share their first physical intimacy while traveling through the Illyrian mountains. |
| ACOMAF | 50 | Mate Bond Reveal | Feyre learns Rhys is her mate after the Suriel reveals the truth. |
| ACOMAF | 54 | Chapter 54 Confession | Rhys reveals his feelings, past actions, and the full mating bond history. |
| ACOMAF | 55 | Chapter 55 Bond Acceptance | Feyre accepts the mating bond and consummates their relationship. |
| ACOMAF | 68 | High Lady Declaration | Rhys publicly names Feyre High Lady of the Night Court and his equal. |
| ACOWAR | 77 | Rhysand’s Death and Resurrection | Rhys sacrifices himself to repair the Cauldron and is later revived by the High Lords and Feyre. |
| ACOWAR | 82 | Final Bargain Tattoo | Feyre and Rhys create a new magical bargain promising to face death together. |
| ACOSF | 21 | Feyre Pregnancy | Feyre’s pregnancy becomes known and introduces major risks due to Illyrian wings. |
| ACOSF | 77 | Birth of Nyx | Nesta saves Feyre and the baby during childbirth, ensuring their survival. |
Who Are Feyre and Rhysand?
Feyre Archeron
Feyre Archeron begins the series as a mortal huntress struggling to keep her family alive. After killing a faerie wolf, she is taken to Prythian, where her journey transforms her into one of the most powerful High Fae. Throughout the series, Feyre develops multiple magical abilities after being resurrected by the High Lords. She eventually becomes the High Lady of the Night Court.
Rhysand is the High Lord of the Night Court and one of the most powerful high fae in Prythian. Initially introduced as morally ambiguous, he later reveals himself as a strategic leader willing to sacrifice his reputation to protect his people.
Rhysand possesses immense magical abilities, including mind manipulation, darkness manipulation, and flight through his Illyrian heritage. However, his most defining trait is his leadership philosophy, which prioritizes freedom, consent, and the protection of the vulnerable. He rules Velaris, the hidden City of Starlight, alongside a close-knit inner circle that becomes central to the series’ emotional core.
Feyre and Rhysand in ACOTAR
When Do Feyre and Rhysand First Meet?
Feyre Archeron and Rhysand first meet during Calanmai in A Court of Thorns and Roses (Chapter 20). Despite being warned to remain inside Tamlin’s manor during the ritual, Feyre ventures into the forest and quickly finds herself surrounded by aggressive fae males. Before the situation escalates, an unknown High Fae male intervenes, claiming familiarity with her and allowing her to escape safely.
Rhysand does not reveal his identity or political status during this encounter, instead presenting himself as a mysterious and potentially dangerous stranger. Feyre is immediately struck by his appearance and commanding presence, sensing both allure and underlying power beneath his composed exterior. This moment is when one of the most memorable lines from their first meeting is said, when Rhysand approaches her and says:
“There you are. I’ve been looking for you.”
When Do Feyre and Rhysand Meet in the Spring Court?
Feyre and Rhysand meet again later in A Court of Thorns and Roses when Rhysand unexpectedly visits the Spring Court (Chapter 26).
During this visit, Rhysand arrives as an emissary of Amarantha and deliberately adopts a threatening and antagonistic role. His presence is intended to reinforce Amarantha’s political dominance over the courts and to test Tamlin’s loyalty.
Tamlin and Lucien attempt to hide Feyre using glamour magic. However, Rhysand is able to see through the illusion. Rhysand then forces Tamlin to kneel and beg for Feyre’s safety. At the time, his behavior appears cruel and manipulative, reinforcing Feyre’s early perception of him as dangerous and untrustworthy.
Rhysand later reveals the truth behind this encounter in A Court of Wings and Ruin (Chapter 54), which provides retrospective context for many of his actions during the first book. According to Rhysand, his goal during the Spring Court visit was to frighten Tamlin and Feyre intentionally. By creating the illusion that Feyre was unsafe in Prythian, he hoped Tamlin would send her back to the human realm, where she would be protected from Amarantha’s growing power.
Feyre and Rhysand Under the Mountain
After Feyre returns to Prythian to save Tamlin, she is captured by Amarantha and forced to complete a series of deadly trials.
Although Rhysand publicly serves as Amarantha’s ally, he repeatedly intervenes to ensure Feyre’s survival while maintaining his political cover.
Early in Feyre’s imprisonment, Rhysand reveals that he told Amarantha Feyre’s name was Clare Beddor, the false identity Feyre had previously given him during their second meeting. Amarantha later murders Clare Beddor and her family in retaliation. Rhysand later confirms that he knew Clare was not Feyre’s real identity and used the name deliberately to protect her from immediate execution.
The Bargain Between Feyre and Rhysand
After Feyre completes the first trial and suffers life-threatening injuries, Rhysand offers her a magical bargain in Chapter 37. In exchange for healing her, Feyre agrees to spend one week each month in the Night Court.
The bargain manifests as a permanent tattoo across Feyre’s left arm and hand, symbolizing their magical contract. The tattoo later becomes a key conduit for communication and power exchange between them.
Through the bargain, Rhysand and Feyre begin communicating telepathically. This connection becomes crucial during the second trial, where Feyre struggles with the riddle due to her inability to read.
Rhysand discreetly guides and supports her through the challenge while maintaining the illusion that he remains loyal to Amarantha. Their mental communication also allows Rhysand to help Feyre maintain emotional control during the intense psychological pressure of her imprisonment.
Why Rhysand Painted Feyre and Gave Her Faerie Wine
During Feyre’s imprisonment, Rhysand periodically visits her cell. While his behavior outwardly appears manipulative or provocative to maintain his cover, these interactions also serve to stabilize Feyre emotionally.
Rhys also makes Feyre go to Amarantha’s court celebrations, where he introduces her as his claimed companion. To stop her remembering the awful celebrations, Rhysand gives Feyre faerie wine, which messes with her memory.
During these gatherings, Rhysand paints Feyre’s body with intricate Night Court designs. The paint serves multiple protective purposes. It creates the illusion that Feyre belongs to Rhysand, discouraging others from approaching or touching her. The paint also allows Rhysand to monitor whether anyone physically interferes with her, as any disturbance would disrupt the patterns.
Although these actions appear controlling and morally ambiguous from Feyre’s perspective at the time, Rhysand later reveals that they were deliberate attempts to shield her from further harm while preserving his political disguise under Amarantha’s rule.
Feyre and Rhysand’s First Kiss
Feyre and Rhysand share their first kiss in A Court of Thorns and Roses (Chapter 42) during the events Under the Mountain.
Rhysand interrupts a secret meeting between Feyre and Tamlin and realizes Amarantha may discover them. To prevent suspicion and protect Feyre and Tamlin from punishment, Rhysand forcibly kisses Feyre as a distraction and cover.
Although the moment is not romantic and is driven by political survival, it is the first physical interaction between Feyre and Rhysand. The scene also reinforces Rhysand’s recurring pattern of protecting Feyre through calculated deception. Later in the same chapter, Rhysand visits Feyre in her cell before her final trial. During this interaction, he allows brief emotional vulnerability to surface.
Why Rhysand Attacked Amarantha
During Feyre’s third and final trial, she is forced to kill Tamlin under Amarantha’s command. After Feyre completes the task and solves the riddle, Amarantha kills her regardless of the agreement.
At this moment, Rhysand openly attacks Amarantha, abandoning his carefully maintained political allegiance. His attempt to kill her reveals his true loyalties and confirms his willingness to sacrifice his position to protect Feyre.
The full emotional and magical significance of this moment is later revealed in A Court of Mist and Fury. Rhysand explains that by the time Feyre died, he had already recognized a bond between them and refused to let it break, even as she slipped away. He describes how he clung to the bond in desperation, willing her to survive long enough for the High Lords to restore her life:
“If you were going to die, I was going to die with you… I clung to that bond. Not the bargain—the bargain was nothing… But I grabbed that bond between us and I tugged, I willed you to hold on… I wrapped my power around the bond. The mating bond. I could feel you flickering there, holding on.”
Feyre and Rhysand in A Court of Mist and Fury (ACOMAF)
Why Rhysand Interrupts Feyre’s Wedding
Rhysand crashes Feyre’s wedding to Tamlin at the start of A Court of Mist and Fury. This is the first time Rhysand has actively enforced their bargain since the events Under the Mountain.
After her resurrection as High Fae, Feyre struggles with severe trauma related to her experiences Under the Mountain, including guilt, nightmares, and emotional isolation.
While preparing for her marriage to Tamlin, Feyre becomes increasingly confined within the Spring Court. Tamlin, motivated by fear and protectiveness, begins restricting her independence, preventing her from participating in political matters or combat training. These limitations worsen Feyre’s psychological distress and sense of loss of control.
During the wedding ceremony, Feyre experiences overwhelming panic and internally wishes for escape. At this moment, Rhysand activates the magical bargain requiring Feyre to spend one week each month in the Night Court.
Rhysand appears at the ceremony and calmly claims Feyre according to the terms of their agreement. His arrival disrupts the wedding and forces Feyre to leave the Spring Court with him.
“Hello, Feyre darling”
When Does Feyre Leave Tamlin and Join the Night Court?
As part of their bargain, Feyre begins regularly visiting the Night Court. Initially resistant to Rhysand and his Inner Circle, Feyre gradually integrates into their environment and begins rebuilding her sense of identity.
Rhysand supports Feyre’s recovery by helping her relearn basic skills, including reading and writing. He also trains her to control her newly acquired High Fae abilities, including strengthening her mental shields and developing her Daemati powers.
Unlike her experience in the Spring Court, Feyre is encouraged to make independent choices regarding her training, responsibilities, and personal life. This emphasis on autonomy becomes a defining characteristic of her growing trust in Rhysand.
Feyre’s final separation from Tamlin occurs in Chapter 12 of A Court of Mist and Fury. After Feyre returns to the Spring Court, Tamlin uses magic to trap her inside the manor in an attempt to protect her from external threats.
The confinement triggers a severe panic response and reinforces Feyre’s realization that she no longer feels safe or independent within the Spring Court.
Mor arrives and rescues Feyre, declaring her freedom rather than protection. Feyre then leaves the Spring Court permanently and chooses to remain in the Night Court.
When Does Feyre First Visit Velaris?
The revelation of Velaris in A Court of Mist and Fury is a significant moment in the relationship between Feyre and Rhysand. When Rhysand lets Feyre into the hidden City of Starlight, he reveals a vital secret about the Night Court and also who he really is.
Before revealing Velaris, Rhysand requires Feyre to swear loyalty to the Night Court. Rhysand brings Feyre to Velaris in Chapter 13 of A Court of Mist and Fury. Unlike the fearsome reputation associated with the Night Court, Velaris is revealed as a thriving cultural and artistic center protected from external threats for centuries.
By showing Feyre Velaris, Rhysand exposes his true leadership philosophy and demonstrates the extent to which he has protected his people through secrecy and political manipulation. This revelation fundamentally changes Feyre’s perception of him, shifting her view from potential adversary to trusted partner.
After moving into the Velaris townhouse, Feyre begins recovering from the psychological and physical trauma she experienced Under the Mountain. The city’s safety, artistic environment, and supportive Inner Circle allow her to regain autonomy and rebuild her identity.
During this period, Rhysand also begins revealing his own trauma and responsibilities as High Lord. Their shared vulnerability strengthens their emotional connection and deepens their friendship. Their bond continues to grow through daily interaction, training, and collaborative political responsibilities.
The Weaver Ring Explained
Rhysand sends Feyre to retrieve a ring from the Weaver, a dangerous and ancient creature known for collecting magical objects and killing intruders. The task is designed as both a test of Feyre’s growing abilities and preparation for the summer court mission.
Specifically, Rhysand uses the trial to evaluate Feyre’s ability to track magical objects, use stealth, and survive high-risk magical environments. These skills are necessary for her later mission to retrieve the Book of Breathings from the Summer Court.
After Feyre successfully retrieves the object, it is revealed that the ring is Rhysand’s mother’s wedding ring. Rhysand originally left the ring with the Weaver, intending that only his future partner would be capable of recovering it.
The Summer Court Mission
Rhysand, Feyre, and Amren travel to the Summer Court in A Court of Mist and Fury to secure the Book of Breathings. Officially, their visit is presented as an attempt to ally with Tarquin, the High Lord of the Summer Court. In reality, their goal is to secretly locate and steal half of the ancient magical artifact.
During their stay in Adriata, Feyre participates directly in diplomatic discussions, court politics, and covert planning. The mission places Feyre and Rhysand in proximity while requiring them to operate as equal strategic partners for the first time during an external court visit.
While in the Summer Court, Feyre begins recognizing feelings for Rhysand that extend beyond friendship and alliance. These emotions first surface through jealousy when Rhysand spends time with Tarquin’s cousin, Cresseida.
Feyre realizes she has been anticipating Rhysand’s presence and feels unsettled when he is absent. Her reaction marks one of the earliest points where she consciously acknowledges her emotional attachment to him.
The tension between them becomes more explicit when Rhysand later admits that he experienced jealousy after observing Feyre interacting with Tarquin. This exchange represents one of the first direct confirmations that their feelings for each other are becoming romantic rather than purely strategic or emotionally support-based.
During their stay in the Summer Court, Feyre and Rhysand share a private balcony conversation in which their emotional vulnerability becomes more visible. The moment includes one of the most recognizable lines connected to their relationship:
“To the stars who listen—and the dreams that are answered.”
Rhysand’s Nightmare
In Chapter 38 of A Court of Mist and Fury, Feyre witnesses Rhysand experiencing a severe nightmare connected to his trauma from the events Under the Mountain. The moment marks one of the first times Rhysand allows Feyre to see him in a fully vulnerable state.
Feyre discovers Rhysand in distress, reliving memories of his time serving Amarantha. His physical posture and emotional reaction reveal the lasting psychological toll of his forced role Under the Mountain, where he endured prolonged manipulation and sexual abuse to protect his court and Prythian.
Seeing Rhysand in this state changes Feyre’s perception of him further. Until this moment, Rhysand often maintains emotional distance and presents himself as controlled and composed. The nightmare reveals the extent of his personal suffering and the burden he continues to carry as High Lord
While observing Rhysand, Feyre reflects on how her own emotional wounds are beginning to heal. She recognizes a growing emotional connection between them, shaped by shared trauma and mutual understanding.
Feyre and Rhysand in the Hewn City
Feyre accompanies Rhysand to the Court of Nightmares for the first time in Chapter 42 of A Court of Mist and Fury. The visit requires both of them to adopt carefully constructed roles in order to maintain Rhysand’s political authority within the Hewn City.
The purpose of the visit is to distract Keir, the steward of the Court of Nightmares, while Azriel infiltrates the court to retrieve a magical orb. To maintain control and prevent suspicion, Rhysand presents himself as the feared and ruthless High Lord associated with the darker reputation of the Night Court.
Feyre participates in the performance by presenting herself as Rhysand’s compliant companion. This public display reinforces Rhysand’s authority and helps maintain his long-standing political façade within the Hewn City.
During the visit, Feyre and Rhysand engage in close physical interaction as part of their staged performance. The scene marks one of the earliest moments where their relationship begins to cross from emotional intimacy into visible romantic and physical tension.
Feyre becomes aware of how naturally she adapts to the role and recognizes her growing attraction to Rhysand.
Feyre and Rhysand at Starfall
Starfall is one of the most emotionally significant moments in Feyre and Rhysand’s relationship, and is celebrated in Chapter 44 of A Court of Mist and Fury. The holiday celebrates the spirits that cross the skies of Prythian. It is traditionally celebrated in Velaris by the Court of Dreamers.
Feyre attends the Starfall celebration with Rhysand and the Inner Circle. During the celebration, Rhysand takes Feyre to a private rooftop overlooking the city and the Sidra River, allowing them to watch Starfall together away from the crowd.
During their conversation, Rhysand encourages Feyre to smile and relax, prompting one of the first moments where Feyre allows herself to experience joy openly in his presence. While on the rooftop, Rhysand expresses regret about their first kiss Under the Mountain. He acknowledges that the moment was driven by survival and jealousy rather than genuine affection, revealing his concern for how the experience affected Feyre.
“Smile again,” he whispered.
The evening concludes with them returning to join the celebration with the Inner Circle, reinforcing Feyre’s integration into Night Court life and her emotional connection to Rhysand.
When Do Feyre and Rhysand Become Mates?
When Do Feyre and Rhysand Sleep Together for the First Time?
Feyre and Rhysand’s first moment of physical intimacy occurs in Chapter 48 of A Court of Mist and Fury while traveling through the Illyrian mountains. The two are forced to stay overnight at a small inn near the war camps during harsh winter conditions.
Due to freezing temperatures and limited accommodations, Feyre and Rhysand share a bed for warmth. The proximity intensifies the romantic and emotional tension that has been building between them throughout the Night Court storyline.
During the encounter, their interaction shifts from playful banter to physical closeness, marking the first time their attraction becomes openly acknowledged through physical contact. When Rhysand asks Feyre what she wants, Feyre frames the encounter as a desire for distraction rather than emotional connection.
Her response reflects her continued hesitation to confront her feelings for Rhysand and her fear of vulnerability. Rhysand, aware of her emotional barriers, becomes withdrawn after recognizing that Feyre is not ready to openly acknowledge their deeper bond.
When does Feyre find out Rhysand is her mate?
Feyre learns that Rhysand is her mate in Chapter 50 of A Court of Mist and Fury. The revelation occurs during a period of escalating conflict with Hybern and marks a defining emotional and relationship turning point between them.
After Rhysand is captured and injured by Hybern forces, Feyre attempts to find a way to accelerate his healing. She traps the Suriel again, seeking knowledge about how to help him recover.
During their exchange, the Suriel refers to Rhysand as Feyre’s mate, revealing information Feyre was previously unaware of. The Suriel also provides guidance about healing Rhysand through a combination of Feyre’s blood and a specific medicinal plant. This moment confirms the existence of the mating bond between Feyre and Rhysand.
After returning to Rhysand and helping treat his injuries, Feyre confronts him about withholding the truth. Rhysand admits that he suspected the mating bond for some time and became certain of it during the events Under the Mountain, particularly when Feyre died and was resurrected.
He explains that he chose not to reveal the bond because he wanted Feyre to have complete freedom to choose her own path and relationships without feeling pressured by magical or cultural expectations.
Feyre responds with anger and emotional conflict upon learning that Rhysand concealed the bond. Her reaction reflects her sensitivity to issues of autonomy and choice following her experiences in the Spring Court and Under the Mountain.
Following the confrontation, Feyre withdraws to a remote cabin in the mountains to process the revelation and her feelings toward Rhysand. During her time alone, she reflects on their shared experiences, emotional connection, and the ways their relationship has developed.
This period of isolation allows Feyre to reconcile her anger, acknowledge her feelings for Rhysand, and consider the mating bond on her own terms.
Chapter 54 Explained: Rhysand’s Confession and the Mating Bond
Chapter 54 of A Court of Mist and Fury marks the emotional turning point in Feyre and Rhysand’s relationship. After Feyre withdraws to the mountain cabin to process the mating bond revelation, Rhysand travels there and reveals the full truth about his feelings and past actions.
During their conversation, Rhysand recounts his experiences and motivations throughout the events of A Court of Thorns and Roses, including his actions Under the Mountain and his observations while Feyre lived in the Spring Court.
He explains that he recognized the mating bond during the events surrounding Feyre’s death Under the Mountain. However, he deliberately chose to conceal the bond, believing Feyre deserved the freedom to heal, grow, and make her own choices without influence from magical obligation.
Rhysand also reveals that many of his most controversial actions were attempts to protect Feyre while maintaining his political cover under Amarantha’s rule.
During the conversation, Rhysand openly admits his love for Feyre and acknowledges that his feelings developed long before she became aware of the mating bond. His confession clarifies the emotional motivations behind his decisions and establishes complete transparency between them for the first time.
His admission represents a significant shift in their relationship, replacing secrecy and miscommunication with honesty and emotional vulnerability.
After hearing Rhysand’s confession and reflecting on her own experiences, Feyre accepts both her feelings for Rhysand and the mating bond between them. Her acceptance marks the first moment in which their relationship becomes fully mutual, voluntary, and emotionally acknowledged by both parties.
Feyre and Rhysand becoming mates
Following Feyre’s acceptance of the mating bond in Chapter 54 of A Court of Mist and Fury, Chapter 55 depicts the formal and cultural acknowledgment of their bond as mates.
The chapter begins with Feyre feeding Rhysand a bowl of soup while he continues recovering from his injuries. Within fae tradition, feeding a mate represents a symbolic confirmation of acceptance and partnership.
Later in the chapter, Feyre and Rhysand consummate their relationship for the first time. The scene emphasizes emotional vulnerability, mutual consent, and the completion of their mating bond rather than physical description.
The mating ceremony and their first night together represent the full transition of Feyre and Rhysand’s relationship from emotional partnership into a recognized romantic and cultural union. For the first time, both characters openly accept their bond without secrecy, hesitation, or political necessity.
Hybern Breaks the Bargain
Feyre and Rhysand travel with their allies to confront the King of Hybern and attempt to prevent his plans to use the Cauldron to invade Prythian. During the confrontation, they discover that Tamlin has allied with Hybern in an effort to reclaim Feyre, believing she is being controlled by Rhysand.
The confrontation quickly escalates when Hybern uses the Cauldron’s power against Feyre and Rhysand. During this encounter, the King appears to sever the magical bond between them.
Although Hybern successfully breaks the original bargain created Under the Mountain, the mating bond between them remains intact. Feyre recognizes this immediately but chooses to hide the truth.
To protect the Night Court and gather intelligence, Feyre pretends that Hybern has completely freed her from Rhysand’s influence. She agrees to return to the Spring Court with Tamlin, allowing her to operate as a spy within enemy territory.
When Does Feyre Become High Lady of the Night Court?
Chapter 68 of A Court of Mist and Fury provides the final confirmation of Feyre’s political and personal status beside Rhysand.
During the final chapters of the novel, Rhysand publicly declares Feyre as the High Lady of the Night Court. Unlike traditional Prythian court structures, where consorts typically hold ceremonial or social roles, Feyre is granted equal authority, magical standing, and ruling power.
Rhysand explicitly establishes that Feyre will share his throne, responsibilities, and leadership. The declaration formally redefines the Night Court’s political structure and reinforces their partnership as rulers and mates.
Feyre’s elevation to High Lady reflects the core foundation of her relationship with Rhysand. Their bond is built on shared decision-making, political collaboration, and mutual respect rather than hierarchical tradition.
Do Feyre and Rhysand Get Married?
Although fae mating bonds traditionally function as lifelong partnerships without formal ceremonies, Feyre and Rhysand later choose to marry. Their decision reflects a personal commitment rather than a cultural requirement. Their marriage and mating bond together represent both emotional and magical unity, reinforcing their partnership as leaders of the Night Court.
Feyre and Rhysand in A Court of Wings and Ruin (ACOWAR)
When Does Feyre Become a Spy in the Spring Court?
The novel begins with Feyre living in the Spring Court while secretly working to undermine Hybern’s alliance with Tamlin. Although Feyre and Rhysand remain connected through their mating bond, they limit communication to avoid detection.
Feyre’s actions demonstrate the trust and strategic cooperation between them, as both accept temporary separation in order to protect Prythian and the Night Court.
When Do Feyre and Rhysand Reunite?
Feyre reunites with Rhysand in Chapter 14 after successfully destabilizing the Spring Court. Their reunion confirms that their partnership remains emotionally and magically intact despite the dangers and distance they endured.
From this point forward, they operate as a coordinated leadership team, preparing alliances and war strategies together.
The Bone Carver Scene Explained (Why He Appears as Their Child)
In Chapter 22, Feyre visits the Bone Carver to request his assistance in the war. During their interaction, the Bone Carver chooses to appear as a young boy resembling a future child Feyre could have with Rhysand. Later, Feyre shares this vision with Rhysand through their Daemati connection.
Does Rhysand Die in ACOWAR?
In Chapter 76, Rhysand sacrifices his life while repairing the Cauldron and preventing Prythian’s destruction. His death mirrors Feyre’s sacrifice Under the Mountain in the first novel.
In the following chapter, the High Lords — along with Feyre — revive Rhysand by offering fragments of their power. His resurrection reinforces the cyclical sacrifices both characters make for each other and Prythian.
The novel concludes with Feyre and Rhysand surviving the war and returning to Velaris together.
Feyre and Rhysand’s Final Bargain Tattoo Explained
In Chapter 82 of A Court of Wings and Ruin, Feyre and Rhysand reaffirm their bond through a new magical bargain during the final stages of the war. As they prepare for the possibility of death, Feyre proposes that they face the afterlife together rather than risk being separated.
Rhysand accepts, and the bargain manifests as a new tattoo forming alongside the markings from their earlier agreements. The moment intentionally echoes their original bargain Under the Mountain, symbolizing how their relationship has evolved from survival-based necessity into a fully voluntary and mutual commitment.
During this exchange, Feyre tells Rhysand:
“When it’s time to go there… we go together.”
Feyre and Rhysand After the War (A Court of Frost and Starlight)
A Court of Frost and Starlight focuses on Prythian’s reconstruction following the war and provides insight into High Lord and High Lady’s domestic and emotional life.
During the Winter Solstice celebration, Feyre gives Rhysand a self-portrait inspired by what she saw in the Ouroboros mirror. The painting symbolizes her acceptance of her full identity and growth.
Feyre also expresses her readiness to begin planning a family with Rhysand.
In return, Rhysand shows Feyre land for a new residence with space for future family life. This home later becomes known as the River House estate.
Feyre and Rhysand in A Court of Silver Flames
In A Court of Silver Flames, they become secondary characters as the story focuses on Nesta Archeron. However, several major developments occur in their relationship and family storyline.
Do Feyre and Rhysand Have a Baby?
Feyre reveals her pregnancy during A Court of Silver Flames. The child, Nyx, inherits Illyrian wings because Feyre conceived him while shapeshifting into Illyrian form.
This creates a medical risk because Feyre’s natural anatomy is not suited for delivering a winged child. The pregnancy becomes a major concern for both Feyre and Rhysand.
Rhysand secretly binds his life to Feyre and their unborn child, ensuring that if Feyre dies during childbirth, he and the child would die as well.
Does Feyre Die Giving Birth?
During childbirth, Feyre and the baby face life-threatening complications. Nesta ultimately saves Feyre, Nyx, and Rhysand by returning power she took from the Cauldron through a magical bargain.
Nesta’s intervention results in Feyre surviving childbirth and the safe birth of Nyx. The Cauldron also alters Feyre’s body, preventing similar complications in future pregnancies.
Current Status of Feyre and Rhysand’s Relationship
By the end of the currently released ACOTAR books, Feyre and Rhysand are:
- Central figures in the rebuilding of Prythian after the Hybern war
- Married and confirmed mates
- High Lord and High Lady of the Night Court
- Parents to Nyx
- Co-leaders of Prythian’s political and military alliances
Why Feyre and Rhysand Are So Popular
Feyre and Rhysand resonate strongly with romantasy readers because their relationship emphasizes emotional safety, personal growth, and a partnership built on consent. Their story also balances large-scale war and political conflict with intimate personal development.
Fans often highlight their dynamic as a modern evolution of fantasy romance, where love strengthens both characters individually rather than defining them entirely.
Feyre and Rhysand Relationship FAQ
Quick answers to the most searched questions about Feyre and Rhysand’s relationship timeline in ACOTAR.
When do Feyre and Rhysand first meet?
They first meet during Calanmai (the Great Rite) in A Court of Thorns and Roses, Chapter 20.
When do Feyre and Rhysand have their first kiss?
Their first kiss happens Under the Mountain in A Court of Thorns and Roses, Chapter 42, when Rhysand kisses Feyre to protect her and Tamlin from Amarantha’s suspicion.
When do Feyre and Rhysand get together?
They become romantically involved in A Court of Mist and Fury after Feyre leaves the Spring Court and chooses to stay in the Night Court (Chapter 12 is the turning point).
When do Feyre and Rhysand sleep together for the first time?
Their first night together happens in A Court of Mist and Fury, Chapter 48, while traveling through the Illyrian mountains.
When does Feyre find out Rhysand is her mate?
Feyre learns Rhysand is her mate in A Court of Mist and Fury, Chapter 50, when the Suriel reveals the mating bond.
When do Feyre and Rhysand accept the mating bond?
Rhysand’s full confession happens in A Court of Mist and Fury, Chapter 54, and Feyre accepts the bond in the following scenes (Chapters 54–55).
When does Feyre become High Lady of the Night Court?
Rhysand publicly names Feyre High Lady in A Court of Mist and Fury, Chapter 68, making her his equal in power and rule.
Do Feyre and Rhysand get married?
Yes. Even though mating bonds are the primary fae partnership tradition, Feyre and Rhysand also choose to marry later in the series.
Does Rhysand die in ACOWAR?
Yes. Rhysand dies in A Court of Wings and Ruin, Chapter 76, after sacrificing himself to repair the Cauldron, and he is revived in the following chapter.
What is Feyre and Rhysand’s “final bargain”?
In A Court of Wings and Ruin, Chapter 82, Feyre and Rhysand make a new bargain to face death together, marked by a new tattoo alongside their earlier bargain.
Do Feyre and Rhysand have a baby?
Yes. Their son, Nyx, is born during A Court of Silver Flames (your timeline table uses Chapter 77 for the birth crisis and outcome).
Does Feyre die giving birth?
No. Feyre and Nyx survive the birth in A Court of Silver Flames after Nesta intervenes, saving Feyre, the baby, and Rhysand.
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